Wedding of Rev. Reanna and Bert
14 May, Year 5 Aquarius
On Saturday 14 May, Year 5 Aquarius, we had the great pleasure of attending the handfasting of Rev. Reanna Marie and her long-time love Bert.
Rev. Reanna, now Head of Enchanted Realm Temple (formerly PURE Sanctuary) in Danville, Illinois, had been preparing for the ceremony for months
Rev. Reanna, now Head of Enchanted Realm Temple (formerly PURE Sanctuary) in Danville, Illinois, had been preparing for the ceremony for months
Only a month earlier Lady Ruthann and I had attended the final rehearsal at Rev. Reanna's home. Details of logistics, music, and timing were carefully worked out -especially that all-important fail-safe for outdoor weddings, the rain plan. And indeed, on the morning of the ceremony it looked as if that rain plan would be necessary, as thunder storms rolled across Vermilion county. But by late morning the weather cleared, the Sun came out, and the altar was set up under an open sky with confidence. |
Lady Ruthann, Rev. Ed, Rev. Jason, and I drove from Hoopeston to Danville, arriving at the wedding pavilion well ahead of time. Rev. Ed began setting up the video equipment to record the ceremony, while I changed into my State Robes. By request of Rev. Reanna I was the only person to be in robes, as presiding Cleric.
The guests also began arriving early.
Members of Bert's family were already present when we arrived, and were soon joined by relatives of Reanna. Many of the guests had come quite a long way to attend. Rev. Karen Plioplys and her family made the trip down from the Chicago area for the ceremony. Head of Triple Goddess Temple and editor of the Daily Spell online newsletter, Rev. Karen has only recently returned to the Chicago suburbs after several months in Hoopeston running Karen's Koffee. We were all very glad to see her. |
Rev. Karen's husband Vince joined Rev. Ed and Rev. Jason in videographing the ceremony, while their children Brandi, Devon, and Felicia helped with still photography. |
A number of other prominent area Correllians also attended including Rev. Virginia Powell, Head of Selu Temple, Rev. Stargazer, and Witchschool General Manager Mary Ann.
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First Priestess Lady Krystel soon arrived, accompanied by long-time Friend of the Tradition Janice Romack. The Correllian Tradition has always been closely related to Spiritualism and Universalism, and many prominent Friends of the Tradition like Janice hale from these backgrounds.
Altogether five of the seven Correllian Elders turned out for the ceremony, though of the Elders only First Elder Lady Bitterwind, Sponsor of Rev. Reanna as Head of Enchanted Realm Temple, and I were directly involved in the ceremony.
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The altar, a triptych of tables, was set up under a tall arch decorated with white fabric. Set with red roses, candles, and elegant glass Chalices for the Toast, the altar was very beautiful. Here too were the cords for handfasting, the tokens (necklaces instead of rings) which the bridal couple would exchange, and other items for the ritual. Two white doves were hung within the arch, as if flying together, to symbolize Reanna and Bert's love for one another. When all was in readiness, I processed to the altar and opened the ceremony. I was joined at the altar by Rev. Kim Reffet, previous Head of the Temple, Temple member Marylynn, and Dave a good friend of Bert's. The first ritual act fell to Dave, who lit a score of incense sticks, and then arranged these in a circle around the ritual area, standing each stick upright in the Earth.
This flooded the ritual space with fragrance, as well as preparing the energy for the sacred ceremony. |
Then Dave retired to a side altar from which he would control the music selected for the rite. Next Rev. Kim smudged the sacred space with sage, making a full circle around the pavilion. Here and there she was obliged to climb over varying impediments in her path, the which she accomplished with her accustomed nimble grace. |
Now Marylynn Blessed Holy Water with which she aspersed the sacred space.
Like Rev. Kim, Marylynn made a full circuit of the pavilion, aspersing all as she went. Then Rev. Kim took up the Athame, and cast the Circle of Art about whole pavilion. We then made our sacred invocations: Rev. Kim invoked the Guardians of the East and South, lighting as she did so the yellow and red glass flower candle holders used by the Temple for the Quarters: Marylynn invoked West and North, lighting the blue and green flower candle holders provided for the purpose. |
I then invoked Goddess and God, and having called upon Them to Bless the ceremony and the nuptial couple, rang the glass bell to signal the beginning of the bridal procession.
All eyes were on the bridal couple: Rev. Reanna in an elegant black wedding gown relieved by a white bodice, which she had crafted herself, Bert quite dashing in her black suit and white shirt, with rose corsage. Reaching the bridal arch, our Lady Bitterwind presented the couple to the altar, then left them to take her place behind the arch. |
Love, as we know, is a matter of the Soul, not of the body alone: it is reborn again and again in endless variations. So the social forms of love too must be allowed to express the varying forms of relationship which Spirit engenders.
Lady Bitterwind is fond of saying "The only good reason for having a Priesthood is to prevent people from putting limitations on their ideas of God." |
The excellent Bitterwind now invoked the Beloved Ancestors and asked their Blessing upon the nuptial couple, stressing the continuity of past and future, and the fellowship of Those Who Have Been, Those Who Are, and Those Who Shall Be. I then stepped forward and spoke of the nature of marriage and the connubial state. |
This is rarely more true than in regard to matters of love, a subject in which many benighted people seek to imagine limits which Deity clearly did not place there. I pointed out here that Bert and Reanna were not beginning a new life together -their love is strong and their life together well established, as all who know them know. Rather, they were celebrating in the presence of their family and friends the life of love they have already build, and consecrating their union in a sacred manner before Goddess and before God. |
Reanna and Bert then exchanged vows which they had prepared for each other, formally and publicly pledging their love, and celebrating one another. Then they lit two tapers provided to represent the light of their Inner Flames -the Eternal Flame of God/dess within. Instead of rings, Bert and Reanna had prepared necklaces for one another to serve as tokens of their love. Reanna's necklace held a silver pendant of a broom, while Bert's held a silver pendant of an Athame. These were now Blessed and exchanged. |
After hanging the Blessed Charms around each others necks Bert and Reanna then used their tapers to light a larger third candle, representing their love and life together. They did not extinguish their tapers however for the third flame of their relationship augments rather than consumes their individual flames. Now the Toast was offered. Reanna and Bert shared their toast from a single Chalice after the ancient manner, symbolizing their unity. |
Using a diabetic testing gadget specially consecrated for the occasion, Bert and Reanna now pricked their thumbs and mingled their blood, following another very ancient custom. Then the Handfasting cord was brought forward and Blessed. Braided from red, white, and black cords, the colors of the Goddess, the cord was now used for the literal act of "Hand Fasting" -binding together the couples hands to betoken their binding tie. |
Finally, the Broom was presented and the newly married jumped over it into their bright connubial future. Before we gave thanks and devoked the Circle, Rev. Reanna gave out gifts to the officiants: she had made dolls from the fabric of her wedding dress, and with each was a silver token matching her own from the ceremony. |
My gift however was special: a splendid new wand -a wonderful example of Reanna's art. And so we gave thanks to the Ancestors, to God/dess, and to the Quarters. Then Rev. Kim devoked the Circle, and we proceeded to "the edible portion of our presentation". |
The Temple members now busied themselves setting out food on a long table under the pavilion, as Bert and Reanna greeted and were greeted by their many well-wishers. Chips and a variety of tasty salsas were set out on the tables as the main meal was assembled. As soon the feast was all set out the buffet line formed, and people fell to happy socializing.
The Feast was delightful consisting of many cold dishes suitable to the hot day: a wide range of fruits and vegetables, several kinds of pickles, deviled eggs, many cheeses, cold meats, juices, sodas and teas -a fine repast.
And of course there were also a variety of tasty deserts. |
The feast was followed by the traditional cutting of the wedding cake, in which the nuptial couple feed one another to symbolize their support of each other.
All in all it was a wonderful day, and much enjoyed by all. To Rev. Reanna and Bert we offer our best wishes and sincerest hopes for great happiness -which we are sure they will know. |
It was wonderful to get to see so many good friends on such a happy occasion, and to be able to meet Reanna and Bert's loved ones. Truly a Blessed time!
At six o'clock Reanna and Bert bade farewell to the assemblage to set off on their honeymoon. Soon after, the pavilion was deserted as we all went off in our various directions -some to continue merry-making, some to other functions, and some like myself to an evenings rest. Thus ended Rev. Reanna and Bert's nuptial day. The events of the nuptial night are known only to them.